Day 9 for yesterday

Very interesting day .... I talked to a girl who had a lot of similarities with me and she seemed really cool but she was a hardcore smoker and she is on the verge of breaking up with her boyfriend ...

I took the number of a country girl later on who had 2 piercings ... she doesn't look to great but she seemed down for sex ... will see what happens

At night I convinced her to take a cab to my place, it was basicaly our second date and told her directly to come to my place for a hot tea - she doesn't drink alcohol ...  she is a 26 year old gynecologist and a nymphomaniac (she told me she used to have sex a minimum of 3 times a day with her exboyfriends at the beggining) and yet she didn't wanted to have sex with me lol .

She said it's too early and she doesn't feel like it ... bla bla bla ... a lot of LMRs I tried to get past them , I was fully naked , she didn't wanted to take a piece of clothing down , not even after she saw my dick :O

She kept saying she has to go home earlier , her brother is expecting her , some bullshit  ... I managed to make her orgasm through petting  , that's a new one ... and after that she still said she has to go home .

She took a cab back home in the midle of the night at 3 a.m.
I think she is still down to meet again , but I am wondering if I could have done something different or made some mistakes .... I have no ideea this time.

Day 8 for yersterday

So I went out when it was dark outside this time for the first time in the program, it wasn't really night game at 8'oclock but I am very proud of myself because I had no hesitation ... and I did fast approaches without any bitch butterflies.

I recorded myself with the new voice .... I don't have time to listen to all recordings but I will try to make it in time. I'm starting to get used to this whole approach everyday thing and it's much better compared to beggining ... I am wondering how it will be on the last day.

I want to approach tomorow first thing in the morning after I eat.

Day 7 for yesterday

I wanted to post that yesterday but I forgot .... so here we go

Yesterday was a great day ... took a lot of numbers and started from neutral state , but at the end of the approaches I entered god mode ... got a lot of positive responses too and took a number from a hot blonde .

I usually get the fastest way to god mode by receiving positive responses ... I know it's not the best way and it's outcome dependent  , but that's what I find out .

I also recorded myself and one of my friends told me after listening to some of my recordings ... that I have to get rid of moldavian voice ... I agree with him and I'll work on that today.

I did some something from behind like I wanted and ran to some girls that were far away from me , but not the whole 30 of them. Also the hot blonde was far away and I said fuck it ... let's run and stop her because from behind she was great.

Peace brothers ...

Day 6

I watched Bijan's clip with dead baby jokes and I decided to do that myself ... so I translated some of them in Romanian and I went out to do my approaches with the new jokes ...

Some of them sound better in English but a lot of Romanian girls don't understand english properly so I have to use the native language.

I also recorded myself...

I actually expected to get more rejections from the baby jokes but there were really good reactions and some of them actually gave me creative answers :))

Ex :  How did a dead baby crossed the street ?
        Her answer : he was carried away


Tomorrow I wanna work on stopping girls from behind ... running in front of them and touching their shoulder before stopping them ... I feel like I bitch out sometimes in this situations if the girl is far away

Day 5 - the date

I went on the date with the girl ... and wow it was totally diferent than what I expected ... I really connected with this girl and she is a gynecologist lol ... I am so proud of that :D

I really had fun ...
Sticking points : I didn't told her that I wanted to exchange orgasms with her like I planned initially somewhere in the interaction ...
I want to work on that and be very direct with girls at some point to see what happens.
I forgot to record the date ...

Good points : I was me and I was natural ... I tried to go again for the kiss and do kino ... she still didn't wanted to kiss but it was fine ... using the principle that you can't be perfect all the time.

I have to figure out about the second date now ... I told her at some point in the interaction that we should go to my place , watch the movie "lord of the rings " - one of my favourite and one of her favourite , do some dancing  and do some yoga - I am curious about the yoga part , don't really know much about it.

I know she is sexual anyway because of her proffesion and the fact that she had a piercing above the lip ... and she wants too make two tatoos ... I just didn't told her directly ... got to tell her next time.

Day 5

I did my fair share of approaches ... I had one particular interesting interaction with 2 girls in a set .... I tried to isolate one of her and it finally worked ... usually it doesn't but I haven't try it in a long time


I also had kind of an instant date with a girl and we established to go for a date later today ... I will see how it goes ...


I did something different with her ... I asked her if she is in love with someone , she said no ... then I asked her if she finds me attractive , she said yes ... and then I took a step forward toward her intimate space and told her now it's time to kiss ... she started laughing a little and said let's go for a walk ... the rest is history


At the end after we exchanged numbers I tried to go in for the kiss again , didn't work and she didn't smiled anymore this time .... probably she got turned off in the proces of talking , but I am not 100 % sure ... we will see how she reacts at the date if she still wants to go out.


Another interesting thing was I stopped a lot of girls and told them : " Today is the international day of stopping women on the street and talking with them " :P

Tomorow I will record myself ...

Day 4

Today I went out with a buddy of mine and did approaches while I was walking past girls ... did that experiment from yesterday and normal approaches ... it was good , nothing fancy.

I tried to have fast approaches , I didn't want to push for an instant date or anything ... I had no time.

I will try and do them in the morning from now on , immediately after I wake up and I eat ... nothing else.

40 day challenge day 3

Day 3 : today it was just great ... and I realized something I want to share with you guys


I realized it in the past but forgot about it ... going out daily and getting so many rejections because of so many approaches I did I entered a state of extended god mode .... but the only thing that actually helped a lot is not thinking anything before the approach and going dirrectly into it in a split second.


It's exactly how Bijan explained the " zombi mode " in a clip... that's one of the things that really helped me ... and I didn't get bored or sad or anything anymore.


So I am pretty sure it can help anyone struggling with just a few approaches and not having fun.
Just stop thinking and the first girl you see "run" towards her and stop her , don't walk, just run.
If there are two girls , run ... 3 girls ? RUN and stop them immediately .


Yes you will also have to do a lot of approaches too ... don't imagine that you can run to 3-4 girls and you will instantly feel better ... it doesn't work that way.


But if you keep doing it you will realize that it's actually fun and interesting ... that's how it changed my mood and my desire to go out ... so today I've done my fair share of 30 approaches.

I've also done that challenge I saw in a video where a guy walks up to girls and tells them : " if I make you laugh in 30 seconds we get kiss " - and they all agree and they all kissed him ... not just kiss him , havily making out , he is grabbing her ass , etc - like in a fairy tale

So I've tried that and not one stayed in for a kiss ... first of all they were all laughing from the beginning after I said : " if I can make you laugh " and then they all walked back after I said " I get to kiss you " - a lot of them just ran away ...

40 day challenge day 2

Day 2 : I established a date with a girl approached yesterday and I decided to do something different : do some approaches before the date to see if it helps .... so I did that , didn't see much of a difference but today I was happy before starting the approaches and I was happy at the date too.


I was happy for no reason :))
She didn't stayed for the kiss and didn't wanted to go to my place but we agreed on a second after she take her exam in two days.

The 40 days program - Day 1

Starting from Day 1 again because I wasn't happy about day 4 ... I did nothing ... and if I start now for 40 days I will have until 28 february ... from 20 January to 28 february there are 40 days.

Day 1 : I went out according to the plan and did 30 approaches ... my goal was to run and be in zombie mode ... I managed to do that 80% of the time , I think I could have reached 100% but something new happened to me ... I got really bored, even in conversations and I thought there was no point in instant dates or taking the number or anything .... just really bored and I didn't really had fun

I took 3 numbers but I didn't felt anything out of the ordinary ... I am thinking about trying Alan Roger Currie style ... I know I will have a lot of failures but I also learned from SP that when you get bored you should change something completely ...
I know it's sad because it's only day one but I don't have any other ideea.

Total time spent in the city also considering bus time : 2.5 hours .
I am proud of the fact that I mananged to do an approach in Garibaldi ... and a group situational approach in the bus ... and then I asked the girl in front of everybody in the group if she has a boyfriend.... I felt the socializing state entering me , it's stil good.

So for tomorrow I will still do zombie mode + the close distance thing from Jacob bootcamp with Jason along with the 3 question thing

Day 3 : Massive bitch butterflies , I managed to do 17 approaches but with a lot of time delay and kind of not in the mood, scared ... it was just bad ... I feel like I dissapointed myself and I didn't had fun either but I try to be optimistic that tomorow it will be fine and I will do 30 + the rest of them from today in the morning again of course.  

Day 2 Project Valentine

Day 2 : I did the whole 45 approaches I had left ... yes , I feel great , took me 2 hours and a half lol ... a couple of numbers .... and I will start recording myself soon and set some specific challenges during these 30 approaches. By the way ... all of these approaches were during the day on the street.

I just had some mixed feelings ... at first I felt a little scared , then I felt confortable, then I felt boored with some girls... and so on, but no matter the feelings I will keep going. 

I have to remind myself constantly that the desire is bigger than the fear,

I forgot to post it yesterday .... today I will also post Day 3 right after I've done it. 

Day 1 Project Valentine : My goal is to do 30 approaches per day . 

Today I only manage to do 15. In this case I have to do tomorow 45 approaches after I wake up , first thing in the morning .... no excuses... and I can do that because I am an online poker player so I organize my time how I wanted to be. 

I got one number... nothing out of the ordinary ... just a normal interaction.

The most important part is that the first 10 approaches I had to do them standing in one place because I was waiting for a package ... and it's one of my sticking points because I can see that the rest of the people who stay near me in one place are looking at me when I stop every possible girl that cross my way .... I know I shouldn't give a fuck and that's what I am trying to do ... but I still feel that emotion in this particular situations .... especially in bus stations.

I hope I will get used to it ... because I really wanna break barrier ... I have to remember that desire should be much bigger than fear everytime I am reluctant to do something ... let's do this

2015 - year of action

In 2015 o sa excelez in seductie si o sa fiu activ tot anul pana va fi un stil de viata complet ...
Voi incepe in forta de pe 16 februarie cu Project Valentine si voi continua pana la 40 de zile. Va fi o calatorie epica.... rezultatele nu conteaza, doar drumul.